Hey, beautiful!

I believe in helping women find what it is about themselves that makes them feel alive and amazing— and using those qualities to attract the love they been waiting for.

Oh, and having drinks and wings. Lots of wings.

Here’s why my services could be for you—

Your love life is in turmoil. You’re dating the same guy over and over and you’re finding it difficult to ignore the early signs of “Mr. Not Right”.

I understand exactly how you feel. In fact, I was in your shoes.


I felt that in order to receive the attention, love, and affection I needed in my life, I had to constantly put my feelings and wants on the backburner. The way I felt about myself was being reflected in my personal relationships and also in my relationships with family members, co-workers, and even friends.

I lost so much self-confidence that I felt stuck in knowing which way to move forward with meeting new people. For about 2 years, I felt sadness, deep frustration, and a burning desire to change. It was through my own self-healing process that I was able to not only attract but sustain a wonderful relationship through effective communication, setting boundaries and redefining my self-worth.I had to explore the sides of me that needed to change –and yes, it was very uncomfortable.

But finding out the habits that make me who I am was priceless. There was no longer anyone around to point out my insecurities or define who I am, I gave myself permission each day to only do activities and engage in conversations that felt good and valuable to the person I needed to be.

And that’s exactly what I want for you…

When we work together, you will go from feeling like a “work in progress” to a woman who knows her worth, getting the love she deserves. You will open your heart to healthy love. I say healthy love because the kind of love you deserve is a great amount of trust, communication, honesty, support, and R-E-S-P-E-C-T.

Imagine finally breaking the cycle of dating bad-boys and being able to meet a great man who honors you and who truly gets you.


“Attract Mr. Right” —Relationship Coaching 60-minute Sessions


Learn how to attract the ideal partner +

Assess and overcome the obstacles/unhealthy habits that have been holding you back

  • Breaking the cycle: I’ll teach you how to quickly spot the red flags, avoid falling in traps with your partner, and how to successfully “thank you, next” someone who isn’t for you
  • Moving forward with clarity: creating your personal relationship mission statement so that you’re armed with knowing exactly what you want AND need in your next relationship!
  • Your tailored dating strategy so that you're loved the right way in your next relationship
  • Tips on where and how to meet quality men

How to keep the flow of positive dating experiences +

  • I believe in ALL things self-love and self-care! You will feel empowered by building up your confidence and self-esteem through fun activities
  • You’ll learn how to put yourself first in a way that will strengthen your relationships moving forward
  • Shifting your mindset through new affirmations, your self-love plan, and a matching attitude to go with it!
  • Learn how to not waste your time: you’ll know what actions you should and shouldn’t focus on

What and what not to say +

  • Do you ever get stuck knowing what to say and what not to say on dates? I’ll give you my secrets on conversation starters for going on dates and how to answer tough questions that will keep men engaged and interested
  • More communication strategies to gracefully and maturely handle conflicts in a relationship
  • We’ll also go through when it’s appropriate to discuss difficult topics and conversations throughout the relationship
  • Learn how you and your man can create and sustain healthy boundaries. With me as your coach, you’ll get comfortable asking what you want and getting what you deserve from men!
  • You’ll uncover the healthy balancing act of giving and taking in a relationship

Limited-Time Bonuses +

  • Receive a digital copy of my best-selling book, “Sour Grapes into Wine: How to Leave a Toxic Relationship to Create a Productive Lifestyle”
  • Love analysis: A more in-depth look at your love life history and how to maintain your new love story
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Why should I choose you to be my dating/relationship coach? +

Not only am I obsessed with understanding the magic of attracting you to healthy love, I've walked in your shoes. I've written a book on my experiences and takeaways from the most common patterns in unhealthy relationships, and I love hearing the results my clients have been getting after I show them the specific strategies that align with ending the cycle of hurt, pain, and frustration.

I was my toughest student in learning the ropes and successfully leaving men alone who weren't good for me. On top of that, I am a certified life coach with an expertise in relationships and have been combining 6+ years of techniques I've learned that have been proven successful time and time again! I also hold a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Communications from Pennsylvania State University--and believe me when I say I love teaching the art of using powerful and persuasive language to help give you the relationship results you desire.

What can I expect working with Tori Autumn? +

With you as my client, we will focus on making a transformational growth for you instead of just creating a transaction.

As your coach, you can expect that:

  • I will provide accountability and support to help you follow through and make the changes you’ve been wanting to make for a long time.
  • I will be a compassionate sounding board and confidante who you can share all of your challenges with. Some people just want to be heard and understood!
  • Together, we can develop tools or strategies to create a life that you love.
  • We will come up with measurable and results-driven action goals for each session.
  • I’ll provide you with valuable resources that will help you move past obstacles that you face and gear you in the right direction so you do not feel stuck in a situation.
  • I’ll help you create and sustain better habits in your love life.

What is the difference between coaching and therapy? +

Coaching is a professional partnership in which we work together to clarify areas that you would like to improve and work toward achieving your desired outcomes in those areas. You can look at it as me empowering you to come up with your own answers rather than advising. It is different from therapy in that we will address any obstacles that keep you from achieving your goals, but we will not engage in therapy or any psychological area that requires training and licensing.

Do you offer any programs outside of the one-on-one coaching? +

Not at this time, but I plan on implementing a limited group program by the end of 2019. Although it won't be as individualized as the 1:1 sessions, it will still be a wonderful experience filled with a love alignment course, action goals/worksheets, and bimonthly group calls with other women just like you! If you're interested in being on the waitlist, please shoot me an email at hi@tautumncoaching.com!

This seems like a big investment, both time & moneywise. How do I know if this is for me? +

Here's what I know about you. You're a busy, driven, and beautiful woman who has most of life figured out except this whole dating thing. If you're finding yourself constantly attracting emotionally unavailable men, the ones who are interested in casual fun instead of a relationship, or you're lacking boundaries in relationships leading to unhealthy habits, many of your problems would be solved if we worked together.

I want you to ask yourself, how much time do you find yourself worrying about not finding the man of your dreams? I'm absolutely confident you would save a lot of time and energy working with me. I've done most of the hard work for you, all you have to do is show up, proactively do the work, and have faith that there is someone out there dreaming of discovering you!

Could I ask you other questions? +

If you're still wondering if my service is for you, I want you to know that I'm genuinely interesting in speaking with you. If you have any unanswered questions, shoot me an email at hi@tautumncoaching.com or hit the button below to schedule a free consultation with me.